A post shared by (@tamarbraxton) on Nov 8, 2017 at 12:34am PST “Sometimes we stay ‘married’ for face value or to say ‘we did it’ but the truth isit couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!even on an anniversary!,” she wrote. “You can say he did this, she did that, I put up with ‘this’ & I’ve suffered & endured ‘this’ for so long.but the TRUTH is that this was your choice 2 stay we get so caught up in WE are ‘winning’ in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us!,” Tamar and Herbert met in 2003 after being introduced by her famous sister, Toni. The couple wed in 2008 and welcomed their son, Logan, together in 2013. One month after announcing she was — and just one month shy of their ninth wedding anniversary — the Maryland native filed for divorce from the music executive. “I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.